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How to Be a Good Sideline Parent: Spectator Tips for 2023


The line between passionate and embarrassing becomes more and more grey as soccer continues to grow in the US. Most parents feel like they are on the right side of this line, no matter how disruptive they may be. While there certainly is no one-size-fits-all guide to sideline behavior. In this blog post, we will discuss some tips for how to behave as a parent on the sideline of a soccer game to ensure that everyone has a positive and enjoyable experience.

Are you a good soccer parent on the sidelines:

1. Speak with Your Children

Do you know if your kids actually enjoy you watching them play: Is it important to you to help keep the team morale high. Do you use positive language and have a positive attitude during games.

2. Do You Get into Altercations?

How do you interact with others during team games: Do you show respect to coaches, referees, and other parents, and avoid negative comments or criticism.


3. Do You Know As Much As You Think You Do?

Are you knowledgeable about the game: Did you take time to review basic soccer rules, and understand the strategies and tactics used by the team.

4. Are You A Role Model?

From 1 to 5 how would you rate yourself as a role model: Do Show good sportsmanship to kids on both teams, and lead by example.




5. Is It That Big of A Deal?

Why are you so upset with your kid, when they have a bad game: Remember that your child is still learning, and that mistakes are a natural part of the learning process.

6. Leave it on the Field

Are you a parent or a coach on the ride home, after each game: Do you help your child to see the bigger picture, the long-term development rather than just the outcome of one game.

7. Look at your Child's Behavior

Are your kids afraid to make mistakes during the game because of you: If you put too much pressure on your child, it can lead to burnout, and remember that soccer should be fun for kids and parents!


Supportive parents on the sidelines play a huge role in creating a positive soccer environment for all kids to thrive. Being a parent on the sideline of a soccer game can be a lot of fun, but it's important to remember that your behavior can have a big impact on your child's experience and the overall atmosphere of the game. By being supportive, respectful, and encouraging, you can help create a positive and enjoyable environment for your child and all the players on the field. Remember to avoid criticizing or yelling at players, coaches, or referees, and instead focus on cheering for your child and their team. With these tips in mind, you can be the best sideline parent possible and enjoy watching your child play soccer.

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